First gay experience story

My(35M) first gay sexual exposure is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, 2020 11:10 PM   Subscribe

I am a 35 year ancient cis man, and I have been only with women my whole experience. Suddenly I find myself being attracted to men, and my first male lover sexual experience is coming up! I feel prefer a teenager again :) How should I prep for this?


Hello. I am a 35 year old cis man, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.

A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.

Since then, I have been fantasising strongly about being penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really want to be fucked by a guy!

So long story short, I've met a kind, gentle gay male who knows about this history of mine and is interested in creature my partner in this adventure. The big evening is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I realize I should try to be spontaneous but I have so many questions! What are things I should be ke

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gertjanwPosted 1 year ago

I still have to believe about that, my first gay experience.
I was 12 years old and went to high educational facility. There I made friends with a classmate. a kind lad. We often met. He lived in a massive house and we often played there in the attic, where there was a wardrobe with women's clothes. That soon turned into dressing up parties, but that degenerated into explorations of the boys' bodies. That's how I did my first gay exploration. A hard cock in front of another. We finished each other with our hands. It took a while before we started sucking each other and getting the cum shot deep in our throats. After a while we expanded our exploration. For example, we fingered the asshole during the burst job, I create that very invigorating even then! After about 3 years he moved. We decided to conclude our gay sex experience by penetrating our hard cock in the ass hole. Before that, the bottle of olive oil from the kitchen went up to the attic and we had bought condoms. As far as I remember, that fuck wasn't a great success. But still I was again an exposure richer.
After my homosexual experiences I had a few girlfriends. Good to exp

Dad died when I was six. The rabbi who lived in the apartment below took over for him. I’m sure he wanted to do Mom. They packed us off to an evil Hasidic summer camp where everyone made fun of us because we didn’t know their crazy prayers. My brother was four. We would secretly meet in the woods, hug each other and yell. We couldn’t realize why our father died and our mother sent us to this terrible place. I learned to hate all religion and still do.

Mom was a dark-haired, curvaceous looker, juicy, and in her prime. She liked sex but decided that all men had to pay for it. The butcher brought steaks; the florist, flowers; the bagel man left fresh hot steaming bagels by our door every morning for months. Leon, the ice cream man left ice cream. My younger brother and I were posthaste dispatched to acquire the stuff into the house, so they couldn’t watch Mom. And not to forget Abe, the jeweler, who brought, well, jewels. They all tried to get inside. Some did. When Mom met the male who brought it all, she married him.

We lived in Borough Park, in Brooklyn. Until I ran away, I thought everyone in the world was either Jewish or Italian. I was intimidated by all the dark, Brooklyn-rough I

Tips for cis men who long to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way

To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s significant to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.

Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and name as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We argue trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.

1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious

Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are empathetic